Friday, April 27, 2012

Habit 3: Put First Things First

To live a more balanced existence, you have to recognize that not doing everything that comes along is okay. There's no need to overextend yourself. 
All it takes is realizing that it's all right to say no when necessary and then focus on your highest priorities.

Habit 1 says, "You're in charge. You're the creator." Being proactive is about choice. Habit 2 is the first, or mental, creation. Beginning with the End in Mind is about vision. Habit 3 is the second creation, the physical creation. This habit is where Habits 1 and 2 come together. It happens day in and day out, moment-by-moment. It deals with many of the questions addressed in the field of time management. But that's not all it's about. Habit 3 is about life management as well--your purpose, values, roles, and priorities. What are "first things?" First things are those things you, personally, find of most worth. If you put first things first, you are organizing and managing time and events according to the personal priorities you established in Habit 2.

Habit 4: Think Win-Win

Think Win-Win isn't about being nice, nor is it a quick-fix technique. 
It is a character-based code for human interaction and collaboration.

Most of us learn to base our self-worth on comparisons and competition. 
We think about succeeding in terms of someone else failing--that is, if I win, you lose; 
or if you win, I lose. Life becomes a zero-sum game.
 There is only so much pie to go around, and if you get a big piece, there is less for me; 
it's not fair, and I'm going to make sure you don't get anymore.
 We all play the game, but how much fun is it really?

Win-win sees life as a cooperative arena, not a competitive one. 
Win-win is a frame of mind and heart that constantly seeks mutual benefit in all human interactions. 
Win-win means agreements or solutions are mutually beneficial and satisfying. 
We both get to eat the pie, and it tastes pretty darn good!
A person/organization that approaches conflicts with a win-win attitude possesses three vital character traits:
  1. Integrity: sticking with your true feelings, values, and commitments
  2. Maturity: expressing your ideas and feelings with courage and consideration for the ideas and feelings of others
  3. Abundance Mentality: believing there is plenty for everyone

Many people think in terms of either/or: either you're nice or you're tough. 
Win-win requires that you be both. It is a balancing act between courage and consideration.
 To go for win-win, you not only have to be empathic, but you also have to be confident. 
You not only have to be considerate and sensitive, you also have to be brave. 
To do that--to achieve that balance between courage and
consideration--is the essence of real maturity and is fundamental to win-win.

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Инээд хүрээд байна..

Өөрийгөө бодохоор инээд хүрээд байна.
Дотор минь бяцхаан гэгч дөл бадамлан асчихаад зүрх сэтгэлийг минь 
хоромхон хугацаанд бүлээцүүлээд, дээрээс нь догдлуулчих юмаа..
Ойрд ингэж хөнгөхөн гэгэлзсэнгүй..

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Хаврын цэцэгс..

Гадаа шороогоор битүү шуураад
тэнгэр газар нийлэхнээ..
Өчигдөр зуслан хавьцаа бороо орсон гэсэн.
Бороо наашилж байгаа нь энэ юм болов уу?
За гадаа ч яахав, гэр дотор удаан хүлээсэн сарнай маань ирлээ.
Жил гаруй л усалсан.Сүүлдээ цэцэггүй хэдэн навчтай л
болж байгаан байна гэтэл..Лав л 6 цэцэг гарах нь..
Энэ тод өнгөтэй Антириум бол 2-р сард цэцэглэсэн.
Цэцэгнийхээ өнгөнөөс хамаараад өөр өөр нэртэй.
Улаан, шар, цагаантайг нь Casino гэдгийн байна.
Ингээд манайд хаврын цэцэгс дэлбээлж эхэллээ.

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Небо звездное мерцает..

Шөнө 3-4-ийн үед унтаж байгаад сэрэхэд цонхоор ийм олон одод харагдаад байхийн..Даанч нойрондоо дийлдээд эргээд унтчихна. Өглөө сэрэхээр зүүд байсан уу, яг ийм олон од байсан уу гээл гайхаад л хоцорч байна.

Monday, April 16, 2012

An8ther Earth

ийм юм хараад байвал яах уу? тэр цэнхэр нь юу юм бэ гэж асуусан чинь дахиад өөр дэлхий байна гэдгийн. тэгж хариу өгсөн хүнд нь хичнээн уур хүрвээ. тэнэгтээд бай, юу гэж өөр дэлхий байдгийн гэж хэлээд нээх гайхсан царайтай сэрлээшд.
Another Earth гэж кино байдаг юм байна. Үзэхээс..

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind

So, what do you want to be when you grow up? That question may appear a little trite, but think about it for a moment. Are you--right now--who you want to be, what you dreamed you'd be, doing what you always wanted to do? Be honest.
Sometimes people find themselves achieving victories that are empty--successes that have come at the expense of things that were far more valuable to them. If your ladder is not leaning against the right wall, every step you take gets you to the wrong place faster.
Habit 2 is based on imagination--the ability to envision in your mind what you cannot at present see with your eyes. It is based on the principle that all things are created twice. There is a mental (first) creation, and a physical (second) creation. The physical creation follows the mental, just as a building follows a blueprint.
If you don't make a conscious effort to visualize who you are and what you want in life, then you empower other people and circumstances to shape you and your life by default. It's about connecting again with your own uniqueness and then defining the personal, moral, and ethical guidelines within which you can most happily express and fulfill yourself. Begin each day, task, or project with a clear vision of your desired direction and destination, and then continue by flexing your proactive muscles to make things happen.
One of the best ways to incorporate Habit 2 into your life is to develop a Personal Mission Statement. It focuses on what you want to be and do. It is your plan for success. It reaffirms who you are, puts your goals in focus, and moves your ideas into the real world. Your mission statement makes you the leader of your own life. You create your own destiny and secure the future you envision.

Habit 1. Be proactive

Your life doesn't just "happen." Whether you know it or not, it is carefully designed by you.The choices, after all, are yours. You choose happiness. You choose sadness. You choose decisiveness. You choose ambivalence. You choose success.You choose failure. You choose courage. You choose fear.
Just remember that every moment, every situation, provides a new choice. And in doing so, it gives you a perfect opportunity to do things differently to produce more positive results.
Habit 1: Be Proactive is about taking responsibility for your life. You can't keep blaming
everything on your parents or grandparents. Proactive people recognize that they are "response-able." They don't blame genetics, circumstances, conditions, or conditioning for their behavior. They know they choose their behavior.
Between the stimulus and the response is your greatest power--you have the freedom to choose your response. One of the most important things you choose is what you say. Your language is a good indicator of how you see yourself.
A proactive person uses proactive language--I can, I will, I prefer, etc. A reactive person uses reactive language--I can't, I have to, if only. Reactive people believe they are not responsible for what they say and do--they have no choice.
Instead of reacting to or worrying about conditions over which they have little or no control, proactive people focus their time and energy on things they can control. The problems, challenges, and opportunities we face fall into two areas--Circle of Concern and Circle of Influence.
Proactive people focus their efforts on their Circle of Influence. They work on the things they can do something about: health, children, problems at work.
Reactive people focus their efforts in the Circle of Concern--things over which they have little or no control: the national debt, terrorism, the weather.
Gaining an awareness of the areas in which we expend our energies in is a giant step in becoming proactive.

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Нар мандах..

Гэнэт ажил гарч томилолтоор явах болоход онгоцоор уу, машинаар уу гэхэд би мэдээж машиныг нь сонгов. Хотоос гарангуут л аз жаргалын амт дээд цэгтээ мэдрэгдээд л эхэлдгийн..Болдогсон бол бүх аймгуудаар, ялангуяа баруун аймгуудаар явдаг ажилтай болохынсон..
Зүүн тийш явсных нөгөө сайхан тал газар өглөө нар мандахыг харна гэсэн бодолтой явлаа.Эхний өглөө 6-даа босоод гарч алхлаа. Хажууд нэг нохой надад бас хань болоостой. Цас орчихсон нилээн хүйтэн, тэгээд яг нар гардаг хэсэг дээр нь бөөн үүл..
Одоо энэ үүлний ард нар мандчихсан байгаа. Хоёрхон өдөр л энд хононошд, за яахав маргааш бас нэг өдөр бий гээд өөрийгөө тайвшруулав. Тэгээд маргааш өглөө нь өндөр уулны цаанаас нар мандахыг харж байна гэж зүүдэлж байгаад 6:30-д сэрээд цонхоо нээсэн чинь уже дээр гарчихсан цацарч байлаа. Одоо яахав, ядаж зүүдэндээ харлаа гээд л тайвширсан.

Ингээд ажлаа ярьчихаад хот руу явлаа. Замд нээх хөнгөн хөөрчихмөөр аялгуутай "I just haven't met you yet "гээд дууны үг урсаад л.. Нэг өдөр нар мандахыг харж л таарна..

I'm not surprised.
Not everything lasts.
I've broken my heart so many times I stopped keeping track.
Talk myself in.
I talk myself out.
I get all worked up, then I let myself down.

I tried so very hard not to lose it.
I came up with a million excuses.
I thought I thought of every possibility.

And I know someday that it'll all turn out.
You'll make me work so we can work to work it out.
And promise you, kid, that I'll give so much more than I get.
I just haven't met you yet.


I might have to wait.
I'll never give up.
I guess it's half timing,
And the other half's luck.
Wherever you are.
Whenever it's right.
You'll come out of nowhere and into my life.

And I know that we can be so amazing.
And baby your love is gonna change me.
And now I can see every possibility.

But somehow I know that it'll all turn out.
And you'll make me work so we can work to work it out.
And I promise you, kid, I'll give so much more than I get.
I just haven't met you yet.

They say all's fair.
In love and war.
But I won't need to fight it.
We'll get it right and,
We'll be united.

And I know that we can be so amazing.
And being in your life is gonna change me.
And now I can see every single possibility, mmmm.

And someday I know it'll all turn out.
And I'll work to work it out.
Promise you, kid, I'll give more than I get,
Than I get, than I get, than I get.


You know it'll all turn out.
And you'll make me work so we can work to work it out.
And I promise you, kid, to give so much more than I get.
I just haven't met you yet.

I just haven't met you yet.
Ohh, promise you, kid, to give so much than I get.

(I said love, love, love, love...)
I just haven't met you yet

I just haven't met you yet.